Have you ever wondered why some people are more likely to become successful than others? Is it because successful people have the advantage of looking at things from a different perspective? Is it because they are lucky or they have connections, the right connections? Well, you may have heard of the 90-year-old lady in Louisiana who dreamed of owning a home; now, she owns the most beautiful house in the world, and we witnessed her amazing story here in Louisiana.
Ok, it took that lady a lot of money to buy her house, and yet she accomplished it in the simplest of ways. And you must be thinking – how could someone £90,000 have such a brilliant idea and convert it into reality? Surely, it’s impossible to be that good all of the time?
How to become successful
Many people set out to become successful – but end up sabotaging themselves and not achieving the success they come in to imagine. Why is that? Why is it that some people are so good at achieving their dreams and goals, and yet they don’t always succeed? Well, we all have to start somewhere, I’m one of those.
We all have some idea of what success means. We may like to think of it in terms of friends, relationships, being healthy, and feeling fulfilled. But how do we know if we are successful until we have the big picture of our heart or our big goals in sight?
To some extent, we are all successful in our way. If you have a smile on your face and you know how to enjoy the simple pleasures and the pleasures of life – then I say yourself congratulations. You may be considered to be somewhat successful.
One of the things I’ve experienced when diving into the world of coaching and consulting are three things that have been able to get me particularly down, dislike some passion, and fantasize about a way of living that’s here today and gone tomorrow free from worry. Let’s call that an “uncharacteristic day” for you?
From where the success comes from
Success comes from having the passion for a dream, and the belief that it can be done – at any cost. Now, I don’t like to go back and forth with the definitions I’ve given for “success”. So no, I won’t go there. However, I will say that there is a way to go about being successful, a realistic way, and that way is to live your life as an authentic version of yourself.
I say authentic – because this means using the amazing gift you have of being able to create an extraordinary life for yourself. Now, all your subjective thoughts about yourself and the world may only be your perception, but you have more freedom to have a different way of seeing the world, and you have more freedom to create the life that you want.
Naturally, that’s a big challenge – especially for people who enjoy the bargains thing; however, it’s about becoming more of an evolved person and to start to live in your authentic self. And that’s a big thing. It’s big because there aren’t many other ways to create your dreams in your day to day life.
I’m sure you may have used someone in your work or your personal life as inspiration for this article? They may have gone through uber plane Sci advanced training to teach you ways to be successful in life. They may have invited you to do workshops together, and they may have written some magnificent programs – so what is the next best step for you to do?
What’s irrational we think of as being up and coming or is often ‘the road’ showing up for use on the road to success? Do you link those thoughts with the goals you want to create in the world of business, and my money is that you start to think about becoming an expert in your field?
If you don’t already have that level of success in your career, then you should look into how you can become an expert in the field that you are capable of. (If you can’t imagine yourself being an expert in your field then think about how you can grow your business to where you want to be as a business owner. Don’t worry, I will offer you some suggestions on how to get you there.)
If you lots of People will do business with you, on questions:
Who are the ten people who you most want to connect with, and who are the ten actions that you want to take in the next few months to grow your business? Alternatively, what is the first top 10 action for each department that you’d like to take?
After those, what are your business core values? What will you do to make sure that your business is well put together?
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